Wow, an interesting topic to be discussed, isnt? Well, way of getting love (male-female love) now changing as virtual world keep changing and changing. Everything seems so weird and that’s what said by “love in the air?” Yeah, love really on the “air” nowadays.haha
Yeah,nothing wrong about that and I didn’t said that it is impossible but, for me, it takes a right person to be in that process. I have a quite number of friends that met their husband/wife through Facebook, and other media socials. I read about a couple that met on Instagram few days ago and yeah, it can be done.
Group of people that usually fall into this situation is those that love to be around, chatting, commenting, observing their virtual friend’s activities and just drop by to say “hi” , “hello”, ” what are you doing”, etc , until the conversation took them into a point.
They finally realised that “there’s something happen” , ” it must be something”, ” I can’t live without chatting with you”, “he is nice” , “is it love?” and things get more and more. It is good for those that are really sure about their feeling and take a step forward. But, still it needs honesty and loyalty. It means, when you find someone on net that you’re really sure to share your life with,lock them up. I mean, be serious, and don’t talk and find another woman/man. Maybe there’s someone better than him/her? Dont do that. Focus to someone only, you will make them hurt.
Clarify everything that you love and want to marry with him/her. So that, things will not go wrong. If they agree,then plan to the next step. But, border between both of you have to be take care of. Well, I think Islam set an awesome orders in taking care those women and men’s interaction. Dont too over’sweet’ and promising this and that. After all, love needs evidence and trust.
If you feel that something goes wrong, like he/she seems to have a lot of relationship in virtual world and you maybe one of their collections, then you have to step back. You are not that cheap and the routine of loving them have to be stop. You have to learn to ignore the urges of typing “hello” and “how was your day”.Make yourself as busy as you can and try to find another beneficial hobby.
It may not be love,but something called addiction. Maybe? But, I am not againts the fact that love can be feel virtually, without seeing each other’s face. It is possible.
So, the better way of finding love is still, in reality world (in my point of view).
It is funny to see everything get evolved, like love is. I am welcoming your thoughts on this topic,let’s discuss! 😀
Btw, found a website that compile the internet love stories >> Internet Love Stories